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GROWING AWARENESS 2000 by e-mail

 

1. Read the notes below.

2. Check the Table of contents TABLE of CONTENTS for the printed 2000 version and read the notes at the end of this e-mail

Please note there is one important change on the CD and / or e-mail versions which will make it easier for you to locate, read and print different sections as you require them.

The original 14 numbered " Sections" or chapters from the 2000 printed edition have now been grouped together into six separate PDF "Books" - each with its own title, and each can be e-mailed to you as a separate file. From the pdf files you can print out all or any of the pages you wish and your printed copy will be identical with the pages from the original book.( And you don't have to print the pages you don't want.)

 

For all 6 books in the 2000 Growing Awareness series (See Table of contents for all books below) PLUS Book 7 containing extra worksheets and additional notes . Free delivery if sent by e-mail.

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NOTES - GROWING AWARENESS 2000 ON CD

Growing Awareness 2000 (as a paperback book) has sold out and will not be reprinted in that format.

I now provide it at half the old price in pdf format which leaves you with the job of printing it out if you need a hard copy, or you can just  read it off the screen and print out the worksheets which are in separate files for easy access.

There is no spoken or video content on it and it is NOT an e-book, because the many do-it-yourself worksheets do not fit an e-book or computer screen format and so need to be printed out.

You cannot play it in a CD player but you read it through your on your computer screen.

The Files I send you by e-mail include all of the 2000 Edition of Growing Awareness as a readable, printable PDF copy of the 2000 book. .

The only changes are in Section 2 which now gives you the 2008 upgraded books numbered 2A. 2B, 2c and 2D. Much of the content is lthe same but these books have been revised and updated and the worksheets are more up-to-date than in the 2000 edition

All pages are in the the easy to read and to print universal PDF format (much better than an e-book)
They can be read and printed on most computers including Apple.

 

BOOK 0 - Cover only
BOOK 1 - STARTING TO GROW YOUR SELF-AWARENESS and Table of Contents
BOOK 2 - USING SELF-AWARENESS TO UNBLOCK CLAMPS, BALANCE NEGATIVE BELIEFS
AND OVERCOME ADDICTIONS
THIS BOOK (BOOK 2) IS THE 2010 VERSION AND INCLUDES UPGRADED FILES AND WORKSHEETS SEE http://www.core-beliefs-balance.com/
BOOK 3 - GROWING AWARENESS OF MY SELF EMPOWERMENT
BOOK 4 - GROWING AWARENESS OF MY RELATIONSHIPS
BOOK 5 - USING VOICE DIALOGUE TO GROW YOUR AWARENESS
BOOK 6 - OTHER WAYS TO GROW YOUR AWARENESS and Alphabetic index

In addition there is an extra "book" not in the 2000 edition
BOOK Z - WORKSHEETS FROM ALL SIX BOOKS which contains spare copies of the worksheets from all 6 PDF books in case you want to print these out separately. When it comes to printing out worksheets, it's much easier to find them here than trying to locate them in each book.

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I will confirm the total price with you and within 48 hours of  payment the CD or e-mail files will be on their way to you

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NOTE

1. To keep costs down the CD is a plain data disk with the files burned  to it individually when you order, not a commercial packaged product. The price does not include a plastic case as this would double the air mail postage costs.

2. Payment  by PayPal (using your credit card) or direct deposit (Australian banks only) For your security we do not handle credit cards.

 

 TO ORDER   or for further information please e-mail me John Nutting  nutting@growingaware.com

 

FULL TABLE OF CONTENTS
As you will see if you look through the Table of Contents (click on the link below), each of the
six books is made up of one or more sections from the original Growing
Awareness 2000, still in the same sequence.

NOTE Extracts from many sections of the book are also found on our old website
website. To read or copy these for free go
TABLE of CONTENTS

 

For a summary read the notes below

 

TABLE OF CONTENTS -  GROWING AWARENESS 2000 AS PDF FILES E-mailed                                              

 

BOOK ONE - STARTING TO GROW YOUR SELF-AWARENESS

 

Section 1     - Introduction - getting to  know your selves

 

What is an inner  self? 

You  and your journey through life  

Growing your awareness- three stages  

The road to awareness - losing it and finding it again

Breaking out of the low awareness trap

How to use this book

What is voice dialogue

The adult-child

The world of the inner selves

Stronger and weaker selves

Selves feel they are experts   

Opposite selves and polarity issues    

Overpowering  and unbalanced selves       

Disowning                

The trap of polarised or binary thinking         

Noticing the inner selves at work - self shifts          

Signs that an inner self is driving your ‘bus’        

Drama, intensity - signs of vulnerability, cannons crucifixes or concrete       

The grown-up way of living your life              

Personal and impersonal selves 

Getting to know your own inner selves - self profiles       

Signs that selves are  at work in other people     

How to tell when the aware adult is driving       

How long will it take to grow my adult awareness?          

How will I know when I am ready to grow?         

 

Section 2     - Understanding  adaption

Early vulnerability as a source of negative core belief binds        

How adapting  reduces  vulnerability       

Core belief-adaption binds - Phil’s story       

Life in your original ‘village’ or family of origin    

Carried selves - a toxic problem                

 

BOOK TWO - USING SELF-AWARENESS TO UNBLOCK CLAMPS, BALANCE NEGATIVE BELIEFS AND OVERCOME ADDICTIONS

Understanding your belief system (BOOK 2 ON PDF/CD)

Book 2 has now had a major revision. This new set is available as part of this CD or e-mail  but is also available separately including a special offer Go to http://core-beliefs-balance.com/

 

Book 2A - UNDERSTANDING YOUR CORE BELIEF SYSTEM

 

Your belief system and how it works

Your  'F' reaction patterns when you are triggered

How your core beliefs bind your reality

Four positive gifts that come from a negative core belief

Your  automatic intention and self fulfilling prophecies

Supporting beliefs - two case studies

Resonance - every day of your life ...

Your inner gifts

The Gods (or the Universe) like to challenge your new beliefs

Examples of typical core beliefs    

 

Book 2B Section 4 USING SELF-AWARENESS WORKSHEETS TO IDENTIFY YOUR OWN NEGATIVE CORE BELIEFS (see detailed list of contents below) (17 pages including worksheets) These pages are not on this website but are available e-mailed as a pdf or on a CD)

Core profile - personal activity sheets     

Getting to know (and name) your reactions - the ‘F’ patterns     

Compensating skills  

Flashing red neon signs and other ways of advertising a belief     

 

Book 2C Section 4 BALANCING YOUR OLD NEGATIVE CORE BELIEFS WITH POSITIVE BELIEFS (see detailed list of contents below) (19 pages) These pages are not on this website but are available as a e-mailed pdf or on a CD)

 

What to do when you are triggered again  

 

Overcoming balancing difficulties   

 

Owning and taking responsibility for triggering and reactions     

 

Positive coping skills            

 

 Book 2ADIX Section 5 UNDERSTANDING VULNERABILITY AND OVERCOMING  ADDICTIONS

Only these pages underlined and in blue are linked for free copying on this website. The other articles are available e-mailed as a pdf or on a CD)

What triggers your vulnerable feelings?

Different kinds of vulnerability

Your underlying vulnerabilities

Addictive cycles - over medication and vulnerability

Remember to H-A-L-T

Overview of typical addictive substances and activities

Sexual addiction cycles

The path and the holes - a story about life after recovery   

(22 pages)

 

 

BOOK THREE - GROWING AWARENESS OF MY SELF EMPOWERMENT   

Section 6 -  Understanding your energy systems      

The great law of energetic balance    

You are made up of energies and emotions - not just words    

Personal and impersonal energies      

Balancing the energies of a stronger or more empowered, low energy, or opposite self                              

 

Disowned selves and the law of energetic balance     

Re-embracing a disowned self    

Flips, coups and freedom fighters -  power politics of the inner self world  

Identifying your place in the family system     

Different kinds of energy       

 

Section 7 - Embracing your aware adult system     

Your key life skills   

Growing  adult boundaries    

Adult boundaries - walls, limits and levelling   

Developing your own boundaries    

Different kinds of boundaries       

Personal and impersonal - chart   

Accessing  your adult emotions              

 

 

 

BOOK FOUR - GROWING AWARENESS OF MY RELATIONSHIPS   

 

Section 8 - Growing your relationships                       

 

Partnering - a skill you can learn     

What is love?   

Stages in a traditional relationship    

Unconditional intimacy

Linkage - a new kind of intimacy     

Differentiation

A formula that helps relationships grow    

The fable of the two codependents      

The rescuer and the bird with a broken wing         

Fighting in a relationship     

Making up after a fight - guidelines      

Worksheets - negative bonding in relationships      

Staying in the adult state when fighting   

Relationship essentials     

Relationship guidelines

What is NOT love     

When selves try to deal with abandonment  and engulfment

Pursuer-engulfer and Avoider-distancer dance cycle        

Power and control issues

Testing for power - the ‘finger in the socket’ test

Negotiating in an adult  relationship     

Avoiding  victim - villain - rescuer  triangles    

 

Section 9 - Communication skills

Communication and understanding

Non-verbal communication   

Your unique communication styles and patterns  (similar to MBTI types)

Identifying your communication and relationship style - worksheets

Open honest communication    

Levelling  or personal feedback    

 

BOOK  FIVE - USING VOICE DIALOGUE  TO GROW YOUR AWARENESS

 

Section  10 - Dialoguing with your inner selves or voices - this section (30 pages)  is a complete workbook in itself on using the Voice dialogue process with guides, scripts and advice on how to do it yourself -

 

Voice dialogue - the process    

Voice dialogue - the method   

Voice dialogue - general guidelines for facilitators

Do’s and don’ts for facilitators

Facilitating the aware adult and balancing opposite selves    

Ending the session

Working with the selves     

Naming inner selves     

Let the inner selves help you facilitate   

Facilitating a  close friend, family member or partner  

Alternate  ways to meet and dialogue with  inner selves     

Do-it-yourself and long distance voice dialogue   

Writing to the inner selves     

Sample inner self map (completed)   

Facilitator’s working  guide sheet

Blank inner self map and profile sheets     

 

BOOK  SIX - OTHER WAYS TO GROW YOUR AWARENESS

Section 11 -  Some special inner selves

Specially entitled self      

The ‘knower’ group    

In praise of the inner Goddess      

The defence lawyer, explainer or justifier and tour guide selves      

The “top 100” inner selves

The four sides of your personality (Johari window)         

Blank inner self map (spare)         

 

Section 12 -  Appendix

From the wisdom of the Twelve Step groups   

Abused in childhood - confused in adulthood       

What is abuse?        

Glossary of terms used in this book

God’s letter to all    

The Twelve Steps of Dependents Anonymous     

Links and contact  addresses      

Recommended  reading      

Conditions for copying or reproducing pages from this book      

 

Alphabetic  index

Index in alphabetic form for all six books         

 

BOOK  SEVEN  - WORKSHEETS FROM  ALL SEVEN BOOKS

Progress charts, worksheets and tables

Trauma history work sheets       

Your personal progress charts        

 

If you require extra worksheets for a friend or partner,  Book Seven is made up of a full set of worksheets from throughout the previous six books, including all  the main worksheets.

 

 

 

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